And who can we blame?

According to a new survey, men are now almost TWICE as likely as women to want a big, over-the-top "fairytale wedding."

In the survey, only 9% of women said they would spend their savings to have a massive dream wedding . . . versus 16% of men.

The survey also found 9% of engaged couples are planning to delay their wedding because of the cost . . . and 13% are thinking of asking guests for money toward the wedding instead of gifts. (Daily Mail)